Monday, February 23, 2009

Life's Roads

Rick Warren, pastor of Saddleback Church and author of the famous "Purpose-Driven Life" book that raked in millions and instantly made him wealthy, is one of the few persons who affected my faith in a most profound way.

A few days ago, I learned that his wife, Kay is dying of cancer. Although they did not know me personally, my heart went out to them in this most trying moment of their life. But I need not worry, because Rick knows just what to do in times like this - becoming steadfast in his faith in God, both in living and in dying.

Here is a transcript of the absolutely incredible short interview by Paul Bradshaw with this man of great faith. After reading it, I realized how amateur and small my faith is compared to his. His is a mountain, mine is a mustard seed.

"People ask me, What is the purpose of life? And I respond: In a nutshell, life is preparation for eternity. We were not made to last forever, and God wants us to be with Him in Heaven.

One day my heart is going to stop, and that will be the end of my body--but not the end of me.

I may live 60 to 100 years on earth, but I am going to spend trillions of years in eternity.. This is the warm-up act - the dress rehearsal. God wants us to practice on earth what we will do forever in eternity.

We were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life isn't going to make sense.

Life is a series of problems: Either you are in one now, you're just coming out of one, or you're getting ready to go into another one.

The reason for this is that God is more interested in your character than your comfort.

God is more interested in making your life holy than He is in making your life happy.

We can be reasonably happy here on earth, but that's not the goal of life.

The goal is to grow in character, in Christ likeness.

This past year has been the greatest year of my life but also the toughest, with my wife, Kay, getting cancer.

I used to think that life was hills and valleys - you go through a dark time, then you go to the mountaintop, back and forth. I don't believe that anymore.

Rather than life being hills and valleys, I believe that it's kind of like two rails on a railroad track, and at all times you have something good and something bad in your life.

No matter how good things are in your life, there is always something bad that needs to be worked on.

And no matter how bad things are in your life, there is always something good you can thank God for.

You can focus on your purposes, or you can focus on your problems.

If you focus on your problems, you're going into self-centeredness,'which is my problem, my issues, my pain.' But one of the easiest ways to get rid of pain is to get your focus off yourself and onto God and others.

We discovered quickly that in spite of the prayers of hundreds of thousands of people, God was not going to heal Kay or make it easy for her.

It has been very difficult for her, and yet God has strengthened her character, given her a ministry of helping other people, given her a testimony, drawn her closer to Him and to people.

You have to learn to deal with both the good and the bad of life.

Actually, sometimes learning to deal with the good is harder. For instance, this past year, all of a sudden, when the book sold 15 million copies, it made me instantly very wealthy.

It also brought a lot of notoriety that I had never had to deal with before. I don't think God gives you money or notoriety for your own ego or for you to live a life of ease.

So I began to ask God what He wanted me to do with this money, notoriety and influence. He gave me two different passages that helped me decide what to do, II Corinthians 9 and Psalm 72

First, in spite of all the money coming in, we would not change our lifestyle one bit. We made no major purchases.

Second, about midway through last year, I stopped taking a salary from the Church.

Third, we set up foundations to fund an initiative we call The Peace Plan to plant churches, equip leaders, assist the poor, care for the sick, and educate the next generation.

Fourth, I added up all that the church had paid me in the 24 years since I started the church, and I gave it all back. It was liberating to be able to serve God for free.

We need to ask ourselves: Am I going to live for possessions? Popularity?

Am I going to be driven by pressures? Guilt? Bitterness? Materialism? Or am I going to be driven by God's purposes (for my life)?

When I get up in the morning, I sit on the side of my bed and say, God, if I don't get anything else done today, I want to know You more and love You better. God didn't put me on earth just to fulfill a to-do list. He's more interested in what I am than what I do.

That's why we're called human beings, not human doings.

Happy moments, PRAISE GOD.
Difficult moments, SEEK GOD.
Quiet moments, WORSHIP GOD.
Painful moments, TRUST GOD.

Every moment, THANK GOD."


Aristarkhos said...

(Hi, I hopped over from Hodge Podge)
I have typed and re-typed a comment that I feel is fitting enough...but I just cannot do it.
This man has remained so humble through his experiences...makes me feel real small indeed. But I guess that is not the 'right' way of looking up to him, right?

Droomvla said...

I have a copy of his book. Truly inspiring... I feel sorry that his wife has cancer. But maybe, I should feel more sorry for myself.

Mel said...

Hi aristarkhos, thanks for dropping by. your comments are most welcome. i am actually more amazed by his faith. beyond that, i am also contemplating why bad things like having cancer happen to such God-loving people. these just don't make sense. but who i am to know? or will i ever know why?

Mel said...

hi mariss. don't ever forget this - i'm only a phone call or a chat away from you.

Aristarkhos said...

Terribly sorry for replying so late. Hope you are doing well.

Yea most of us have the same question. Why some get cancer and why don't all of them get cured?
Isn't healing for all those who accept the Lord?

Thankfully, pastors I have known have never fibbed and tried to give an answer. they have been frank to say that His ways are sometimes not entirely understood.

Sickness is something that is a part of this world. Tho i dont entirely get why a person has to suffer...maybe some meaning in that too.